Tuesday, June 15, 2010
The Summer of Single
I have decided that it is necessary that I have a punctuation mark in the long run-on sentence of disastrous dating experiences. From dating and breaking The Bartender last October to dating and breaking the Nicest Guy in the World last Novemeber/December, to entertaining Mr. Awkward in January, to admitting my feelings for Mr. Biz in February, to my short lived relationship with Mr. Ballsy- I have had no time to just be.
I now declare this to be the Summer of Single...Yes- I will still entertain new possibilities. Yes- I will still get drunk and say embarrassing and awful things. Yes- I will still end up in awkward situations and I am sure I will make out and hook up. BUT I am not on the prowl and I am not sacrificing any of MY life and my effort and my time. They can come to me if they want- but I am no longer meeting anyone halfway.
And until I have properly mourned the loss of Rue McClanahan- I am just refocusing attention back to myself- I have been not as selfish as usual. To remedy this- I will focus only on making myself happy and using men as they were intended- making out and free dinners.